All The Single Ladies

Goddesses, it's almost Valentine's Day. And some of you might be like me, single. Now we don't care why you're single, but this is just to remind you that you can show yourself some love. You don't have to wait on a man to buy you a box of candy, or bring you a gift. Love begins with loving yourself first. Last year I treated myself to a white Topaz ring, I've only worn it a few times, and I'm not that big on wearing jewelry. I was feeling a little lonely, still going through the mourning of my now defunct marriage. So instead of feeling sorry for myself, I decided to be good to me and I bought the ring. I felt ten feet tall once I purchased it, and when I put it on and wore for a few days I felt even better. And I even went so far as to show it off to my friends and co-workers. Of course they did ask me "who" bought me such a nice gift. And I had the pleasure of telling them how I decided to treat myself to something, how I decided to show myself some love.

So here's to all the single ladies out there! It's time to show yourself some love! It doesn't have to be anything big, just put yourself in the man's shoes. If you had a man, what would you like him to buy you for Valentine's Day. Now that you've got your list, go and purchase something on that list for yourself, because you love yourself.

And just in case no one has told you that they love you:

I Love You Very Much, xoxoxo