Thursday, January 29, 2009

All The Single Ladies


Goddesses, it's almost Valentine's Day. And some of you might be like me, single. Now we don't care why you're single, but this is just to remind you that you can show yourself some love. You don't have to wait on a man to buy you a box of candy, or bring you a gift. Love begins with loving yourself first. Last year I treated myself to a white Topaz ring, I've only worn it a few times, and I'm not that big on wearing jewelry. I was feeling a little lonely, still going through the mourning of my now defunct marriage. So instead of feeling sorry for myself, I decided to be good to me and I bought the ring. I felt ten feet tall once I purchased it, and when I put it on and wore for a few days I felt even better. And I even went so far as to show it off to my friends and co-workers. Of course they did ask me "who" bought me such a nice gift. And I had the pleasure of telling them how I decided to treat myself to something, how I decided to show myself some love.




So here's to all the single ladies out there! It's time to show yourself some love! It doesn't have to be anything big, just put yourself in the man's shoes. If you had a man, what would you like him to buy you for Valentine's Day. Now that you've got your list, go and purchase something on that list for yourself, because you love yourself.




And just in case no one has told you that they love you:




I Love You Very Much, xoxoxo

Wednesday, January 28, 2009

Some Open- Door Goddesses To Remember


Let us remember the Goddesses throughout history that paved the way for us. Their contributions to American life, standing on their mothers' shoulders while creating and building foundations that would be unreconized had it not been for their profound impact. They shaped the contours of betterment for America. Sometimes they helped to change its destiny that was orchrestrated, and predominately designed to benefit men. They were expected to be quiet in the churches, work and home, and were prisoners in all aspects of American life.

Since the European settlement in the New World, women have always been prominently involved in the developments and growth for our great nation, but were expected to not have a voice. Actions and circumstances changed throughout time, and opportunities presented itself for the brave to step forward.What resonated within their souls? Was it the injustice that they saw and witnessed? However, some were called witches and were burned and killed for speaking up or out on causes they felt strongly about. No one knows the countless ones that died for challenging the systems that men set forth.How much time and how many lives were actually wasted? All we know of are the few, that have been presented in our history books.

But what and who inspired those few? I am moved to note their great contributions to our American life and culture, as we have come to know of it today. Their courageous efforts should never go unnoticed and should be remembered. Always. They opened doors for many, so that we could have a better life today.

In the weeks ahead, I will highlight these brave and powerful women that some can call Goddess in her own way. I call this, "Goddesses, Voices of the Past ." For they opened doors that were closed, with words they spoke or had written. Words have power : ( note the years in between )1638: Anne Hutchinson, her interpretations of theology challenged its system therefore spoke on it and questioned it.1650: Anne Bradstreet, was the earliest American Poet, published her first poem.1769-70: The Daughters of Liberty Support the Non importation Agreement, for political reform, family life and equal rights.1773: Phillis Wheatley, first book of poems by a Black American.1776: Abigail Adams, expressed, Remember The Ladies, speaking out on equal rights.1790: Judith Sargent Stevens Murray, argued for equal education for women.1792: Mary Wollstonecraft published "Vindication of Rights of Women.1818: Emma Willard, asked Taxpayers to Support the Education of Females.1829: Fanny Wright, is The First Female Public Speaker1833: Prudence Crandall's First School for African-American Girls, also this year, the Female Anti-Slavery Society Of Philadelphia was founded to bring about social change.

During this time abolitionism became an overtly political movement that the American women participated. They gained experience and connections and drew in mobilizing for other causes including their own.Slavery made them aware and conscious of the debilitation of poverty, the injustice of their own position in society.This gave birth to fights for rights of their own. Also this same year, Lydia Maria Child published the first antislavery book in America.The name of it was, "Appeal in favor of that class of Americans called Africans. While today some doors remain closed to women, as promised I will continue to open the doors of this knowledge of women, (Goddesses ) that opened doors that were closed during their time.

Monday, January 26, 2009

Goddesses It's Time To Shine


I've recently had to take a good look at myself as a goddess. Realizing that as our movement grows people will quite possibly begin to pay attention to how I carry myself, how I walk, how I talk, how I live. But although I've been a goddess from birth, I have not always carrying myself in such high esteem, it was something that I grew into it. I've learned a lot about who I am in these past 50 years of my life. I've come to discover that a goddess comes in all shapes, sizes and colors. Not all goddesses talk alike, walk alike, and live the same type of lives. Some have more than others, although I pray to my Creator that we be allowed to provide some balance to that one in the near future.

I'd like to take this time to invite you to our website and click on one of the newsletters or all of the newsletters and read about the goddess of the month. Each of those women grew into the goddess that she had become. All have gone through some form of struggle, but grew from them. They had love for their fellow man, were not judgemental, and was always of service in some shape form or fashion.

So I'd like to suggest that even if you don't quite feel like a goddess yet, come and join us. Let GBG help you bring out the goddess in you. It doesn't matter what you look like, talk like or where you live or your living circustances. We are hear to help you grow into the goddess that is just waiting for you.

Remember if nothing changes, everything stays the same. Goddesses it's time to shine!